Wednesday, May 22, 2013


I just dropped Terry off at the airport this morning.  She is going to a family wedding in Omaha.  Terry’s early roots are in the Cornhusker state and her ties have remained strong.  Most of the cousins and their families would rather spend their valued vacation time visiting with each other than on a beach in Tahiti.
Over the years I have done this a few times, always for very brief trips.  But if I had done it a million times it would not diminish the feelings I get each time when I take one last look in the mirror at her, little blond bun and all, waving good-by. 

We had a CD playing in the car.  Not just any CD.  This was a special one that had been mixed by our son-in-law James for us and had many of our favorites including the Beatles, Beach Boys, Adele, Louis Armstrong and many others. 
As I drove away the song playing was being sung by Jimmy Durante and was from one of our favorite movies, “Sleepless in Seattle”.  The title is “Make Someone Happy”. Please forgive me getting so personal in a thing such as a blog but it has been a reflective time lately.  No words I could write here would express how I feel quite like the lyrics to this song.

Make Someone Happy by Durante, Jimmy
Make someone happy,
Make just one someone happy;
Make just one heart the heart you sing to.
One smile that cheers you,
One face that lights when it nears you,
One girl you're ev'rything to.

Fame if you win it,
Comes and goes in a minute.
Where's the real stuff in life to cling to?
Love is the answer,
Someone to love is the answer.
Once you've found her, build your world around her.

Make someone happy,
Make just one someone happy,
And you will be happy, too.


2 comments:

  1. Dad! What a perfect song to describe what love should mean in your life. It means EVERYTHING! Without that, we really have nothing at all. And you and Mom definitely have it. It’s the best thing in the world to see that… and it’s pretty rare these days that a couple can be married 50 years and even rarer that they are still in love and still happy!! You guys are the ideal example of what a married couple are all about… love and family. And you taught all of us not to settle for anything less than that! You noticing Mom’s bun when she’s waving good-by reminds me how she turns up the SC game full blast even when you’re not home. It’s those little things that matter.
    :)

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  2. Beautiful... just Beautiful!
    Love you all...XOXO
    Sam

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